The GPS to your Soul mate

Many have and will continue to turn to psychics in order to find the one. I've done this myself. While all but one of the psychics predicted aspects of my love perfectly, realizing this upon later reflection of course, none of them could tell me where he was, when I'd meet him, and where I'd meet him. This frustrated me greatly.  Wouldn't it be wonderful if a psychic could give you a name, a full physical description, and an address? But it doesn't work that way.

My annoyance lifted when I realized my clients have the same frustration. When I read others, I can't give exact directions to their soul mates either. Sure I get details here and there about who they are and the nature of the meeting, but nothing to pin point their lost lover's exact location. Certain clients are convinced if they ask me enough times I'll be able to conjure up this information. Remember, I'm psychic not omniscient. For a long time I kept wondering why everyone seemed convinced I was a GPS to their soul mate.

Then, I figured out how to hook up my inner soul mate GPS.

After a horrific break up and consulting a few intuitives, I took a lot of time to work on myself and really figure out what I wanted. I stopped dating; only focusing on developing better friendships and intellectual contacts. I read a lot of self help books and watched inspiring videos. I analyzed why I had undergone the negative patterns of my previous partners.  I dug through old scars stemming from childhood issues with the men in my family. I clutched the negative beliefs about how I deserved to be treated and tore them out forever. I took on a therapy of energy healings, yoga, subliminal messaging, and being honest with others as well as myself. I focused on making my dreams come true, not those of someone else. I listened to the music I wanted to, traveled where I wanted, and took company with those I pleased. All the while, I prayed that this would attract my mystery lover.

After a long search, I wanted to give up. I was at a Motley Crue concert and I found a sense of peace in surrendering myself to the universe. I decided instead of feeling awful about not having love, I would focus on how amazing my life has become. I had become a stronger version of myself in pursuit of my soul mate and I was grateful for what the journey had given me. I wasn't bitter and would be happy for those who would find their one. Maybe I was just too unusual for anyone to love me; but I knew I loved myself and I wasn't going to change for anybody. I was content to be in love with my life.

With that, I started talking to my soul mate two days later and I met him three weeks after that concert. The funny part of this is, I found him! That's a story for another post. Many have told me love only finds you when you stop looking. I only believed this after it happened to me.

I am not a GPS to your soul mate, but you are the GPS to yours. Fight your demons, chase your dreams, love yourself, and don't try to find what will magically come to you when your eyes are gazing upon the infinite horizon. Psychics can and will give you clues to guide you, but it comes down to what you are willing to do to have the love of your life.  Love will only find you when you're ready and your inner GPS is properly set.