Writing Your Own Love Story

Your life story is yours to conjure and within it you may create a love beyond your wildest dreams. One technique I found useful when I was still single was writing out my happily ever after. For years I didn’t realize how powerful the creative process was. It wasn’t until I saw what manifested in my life based on the stories I wrote that I understood the power I held in my hand and in my pen.

When I was a little girl I fantasied about being with a solider. I envisioned someone who was very serious but very protective of me. I often wrote this character into stories. However, at a very young age I began to believe there wasn’t anyone out there for me. I felt I had to learn early I was going to live life on my own. My time on earth was going to be hard and no superman was coming to my aid. Eventually I felt so defeated by this belief I stopped writing happy love stories all together.

When I give my free psychic readings, I often cover the importance of believing in true love in order to bring it into your reality. Otherwise what you’ll create instead can get pretty scary.

When I was in college I was a creative writing major with a focus on fiction. All of my stories I wrote for assignments were about people in highly dysfunctional relationships. While I definitely needed to get some stuff off my chest through my writing, these stories weren’t countered energetically with anything positive involving romantic love. These were dark partnerships set in dreary landscapes. The fights were explosive, the issues of each character complex, and sex wasn’t loving. I ended up manifesting the relationships I wrote about and it wasn’t pretty. I didn’t understand the connection between the art I made and the reality I was creating until I re-read a few of my stories and saw how they were directly reflecting my current reality. That was a hard hitting realization. After that, I started writing a new story for myself.

When I heard of using the law of attraction through the creative process, I tried to write my engagement story. I found it corny and it wasn’t genuine to the real me. Not too much ending up coming from that one. It wasn’t until I started writing myself as a character in a story that was authentic to the true me that what I wrote on the page came true.

My senior thesis was a draft to a novel. I was double major in history by then, so it was a piece set in Post WWII Japan. Most of the novel chronicled the relationships my main character Miyako, who was a Pan Pan, had with various men. She found empowerment through knowing her own beauty and desirability. She chose who to spend time with and really enjoyed getting to know people. She aspired to find stronger role models and to become more like them. At the end of the story, my other main character, Andrew is a war veteran who finds a happy marriage after years of healing and learning to let himself be treated well. I even wrote myself into the end of tale. My boyfriend in the story was a motorcyclist and a savvy mechanic. He was very in love with me too. I was my quirky, curious, and talkative self who desired to know Andrew’s story. In a lot of ways it was a novel about romantic healing. Writing it did the same for me. What happened a few months later still amazes me.

The lover I ended up with is a hybrid of the man I wrote about as a child as well as the man I wrote about in my later in college. As a child my lover had envisioned he would grow up to be a solider and almost ended up in the Navy on a huge scholarship. He chose a different path instead. He has been riding since the age of eight and was the most experienced as well as intuitive motorcyclist I’ve ever met. He has blue eyes, which I described each time I wrote about this partner in my stories. I’ve been amazed over and over again of what he can fix as well as create with his hands as well as his mind. He is indeed serious and protective, but still very fun. Everything I wrote about the lover I wanted came to be through the person I ended up with. There were other delightful surprises as well.

So yes, write your own love story. Write about the person with the hot car, chiseled body, foreign accent, fame, and fortune. But be careful what you write about, it may not be what you fully want or need. You want someone with authentic qualities. Otherwise it won’t be a fully satisfying relationship and it’s likely not to last. How about a dog lover? Or someone who loves the same hobby? Someone of courage, honesty, faithfulness, honor, compassion, confidence, and ambition? Are you ready for someone like that? Those are the kind of qualities you want in someone. In order for this process to work you must know the kind of person you truly want. You must also be ready to receive them by knowing you deserve love. Ensure you’ve dealt with your past romantic scars, create the strongest version of yourself, and truly love with who you are. If you’re not there quite yet, try a free psychic reading or full detailed reading with me and I can help show you the way. – Autumn